Chic After 5 Dinner

Going Some Where After 5pm?

After 5pm style is so much fun,they are looks that hold a mixture of sex appeal,class and cocktail with evening rolled into one. A woman can express her femininity in the After 5 style.

Be Daring, Bold and Creative our style is alive in the After 5.

What Are After 5 Dinners A Viewer Asked?

Written By Rebecca Davis

After 5 dinners tend to start and end with cocktails that is the fun part ,but don’t get sauced lol, They all don’t involve alcohol. And After 5 dinner is an event thar has cocktails usually after 5pm ,the guest speak and mingle or negotiate business information,political information and so on.

The dinners are in a relaxed environment. After 5 can take many forms of occasions they started in the 1600s for common and wealthy, but the royals from nation to nation would have after 5 events,and so it evolved over time from different cultures,classes and economic backgrounds. They are just social events and dinners that take place after5 pm ,which in some cultures can be a time for dinner or after work relaxation.. as the world evolved so has the after 5 events. There is formal or informal events, one example is the event is themed like a parental meeting of parents for a wedding,or there is a business merger celebration. After 5 can wear many masks,that is why I always stress ask where you are going and what is the occasion.

They are elegant but not too formal. Its a mixture of both worlds. They can be small or large events. Most of the times guest will have a plus one. But with After 5 occasions they can have casual atmospheres and themes. After 5 can also be a date experience as well. If you are attending and After 5 ask where you are going and take your style from there. You may be in a cocktail environment or with business prospects and the setting could be just friends and family.

Enjoy The After 5 Life

Monday Office Style For April 8th

My designer pick for today is Cora Canela. Pictures provided from pinterest. Cora Canela is not affiliated with this blog or website,we just love her fashion.

Its another day at the office and you still got a mountain of papers to file and memos to send out. But even with the stress of it all you still look great.

Message From Rebecca , Today I am putting my health coach certification skills to work.Don’t lag on vegetables this week ,If you are really busy put more beets in your diet for energy,and get tons of water and rest. Your body will thank you.

How To Pick Your Lip Color Style For Spring

Spring season has arrived and some of you are wandering what is the right shade of lipstick you should ware as your personal style.

Here are some tips to choosing that right shade for you.

1. Pick a color that complements your eyes.

2. Pick shades that will blend with your skin tone ,and stay away from shades that make your skin look dull and contrast against your pigment.

3. When choosing your shade pick one that will fall in your color chart.Meaning are you a warm tone or cool tone.

Test the shades in the light with a sampler.

Keep in mind spring is about color and fun so be expressive and youthful no matter your age or skin tone.

Monday Strides

Its Monday Let’s Begin The Work Week With Professional Style And Encouragement.

Today let’s create a positive change in everything from finances and our career to our relationships and health.

Let’s eat a healthy meal and have healthy snacks to maintain proper weight loss and to improve our generalhealth.

Self-confidence and good mental health are a plus for managing your day and busy work week.


These simple statements should flood your brain with positive self-talk.

  1. I am beautiful inside and out.
  2. I am smart and sexy and creative.
  3. I am a leader and a woman of great destiny .
  4. With God I can do anything!

Is Work Giving You The Blues?

Its a New Year and Your Work Situation Has Not Changed, If Anything Its Giving You The Blues.

Written by Dr. Rebecca Davis

Don’t get depressed because you are not where you want to be professionally. It is rough out there in the working world. Bills get higher and pay gets lower. But hang in there if you can. Make a plan and a career move. Some people need to switch companies,positions and departments. And sometimes it is just little things that need to be handled.

When you get stressed out just say God take my life in your hands.

Try these steps first and give yourself 1 year before you move to another job.

If you are truly getting bummed out at work try some mood therapy or relaxation therapy . If you have your own office try doing some fengsui or color therapy to lightened your visual mood. Place inspirational quotes and people who you admire on the wall or get a little radio and play music that boosts your creativity. Don’t forget aromatherapy is a good practice at work too. Getting an airfresher with a pleasant scent can calm your nerves.

Decorating your space to your liking is a huge mood changer.

The next task I want you to do is question your work environment.

What do I mean by this you ask? Well are you around toxic people ,boss bullies,gossipers and grouches? If so ,I want you to practice avoidance. Avoidance means don’t hang out with them at work,at lunch and before and after your work shift. I want you to limit them on social media or block them too if necessary. Only associate with them at work and only for work purposes. Arrive at work at the appropriate time and leave ,don’t put extra chit chat energy in.

Are you still Blue?

Don’t be ashamed to get a stress ball they do work. And PRAY! ITS OKAY TO PRAY.

When you get home cry ,crying releases the dark and pint up energy you are holding in. Cry therapy does help with the blues.

If you still have the work blues get a pen and paper handy. I want you to write down what you like and don’t like about your job. If all the bad on the list out weights the good its time to make a plan to move on. Like think about what education you need ,can you do the same thing some where else. And remember there is no perfect work place unless you work at home.

So, I hope that my advice helped you with the blues. If you are feeling blue ware blue,the color blue is a calming and relaxing visual and its great to have in your wardrobe.

Black ,Sexy Formal Dresses For The Holidays

Long black sexy dresses for formal occasions are always instyle.

Rebecca’s Fashion Tip

When buying a sexy formal black dress keep your body size in mind.Satin material that does not have polyester blends can be more form fitting. Which means it can run tighter in the size. We all have flaws so get an under body garments that will smooth your tummy, cellulitis and other unflattering body components down.

Also when buying a formal dress keep the cut and fabric in mind.

Gifts For The Teenage Girl In Your Life

Teenage girls love beautiful and feminine products, but just like every teenage girl, they hold their own personal style, beliefs and strengths. Shopping for a teenager can be difficult and stressful, but dont worry here are some gift ideas for the special teenager in your life.

Rebecca’s Advice

When picking out makeup keep in mind there skin tone and find out if there allergic anything.

FYI Daddies if you dont know what type of makeup she likes, just get a gift card .

Teen Girls love Embroidery

Find a really cute bag,stationery, or fun mug,water bottle ,or even dorm/room decals and decor and make it there own. Add special dates, quotes and messages to it. Not only is this cute, but its special too.

If you really want to wow your teen find out what her favorite band and or artists is and book concert tickets for her. Giving her and a best friend tickets, or you and her a concert outing will just truly be off the chain.

Merry Christmas To You All and Happy Shopping .

1st Day Of Shopping

1st Day of Christmas

Shopping

By Rebecca Davis 12/1/18

The first day of shopping should be a trial run. Dont go into it thinking your going to accomplish it by getting everything for everyone. You could say the first day of shopping is like window shopping. Sales will change ,new stock will come in and new discoveries will happen.

To take some of the pressure off of you while shopping this season follow some of these basic rules.

1. Make a list and budget and really stick to it!

2. Make a Shopping Rule

A Shopping Rule? What is that you’re wandering ,well a shopping rule is maybe the important people in your life will only get 3 gifts max . An example of this is one expensive gift ,and one budget gift under $50 and one stocking stuffer. Or another example is you will get the important people in your life what they ask for,and you will get other people like friends/coworkers and church members or customers a set amount giftcard/or gift certificate.

2. Make a list of who you are Shopping for. Dont add to the list either. Make a list check it twice before you go Shopping. When making a list dont feel pressure to please and show off. For example you want to flaunt like King Tutt and write checks your butt cant cash to show off to neighbors and coworkers. Dont do it! This only adds to your debt . Only buy for those who you love and for those who have given to you. Dont feel pressure to please others.

Rebecca’s Advice, Buying to earn people’s approval or affection only backfires on you. The next month that person will probably not appreciate what you have given them and you will be stuck with the bill and debt and heartache. I will post on this matter in more detail later.

3. Navigate where you want to shop,this will save you time and gas.

Keep in mind what favorite Shopping Mall you want to go to.

Navigate and plan it will save you time. And ask what time certain stores will be opening and closing for holiday hours.This will prevent you from rushing through your selections.

4. Get the people on your lists, skin tones,dress sizes, and clothing sizes and styles. Along with there ages. Maybe you want to get a relative’s child a gift,and maybe you remember them as a 10 year old but in reality they are 14. Gift appropriations. Know and realize who you are buying for.

Rebecca’s Advice if you have a large family get family gifts everyone will enjoy like popcorn makers ,icecream makers ,games etc..

Dont Impulse Buy

Dont waite to order gifts online because some can take up to 2weeks to arrive .

Rebecca’s Advice

Do look at the size charts when ordering online. Different sizes and types are measured differently from foreign countries.

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY SHOPPING

How To Put An Office Assistant Outfit Together

 

How To Put An Office Assistant Outfit Together

Office assistants handle organizational and clerical support tasks. This may include organizing files, scheduling appointments, writing copy, proofreading, receiving guests and more, depending on the company you work for and the tasks they may give you. Because of the positions responsibility and many tasks you may perform threw out the day, you should be dressed to accommodate your role. If you are running errands you will need comfortable shoes, if you are meeting guest you should have on attire that fits your company standards.

#1 The first thing you should do is put your outfit together based on your company rules. Look around the office what is the dress code and tone.

You don’t want to wear jeans in a law firm unless its Friday and its okay with your boss. You don’t want to wear a bank attire at a hair salon.

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#2 Pick out pieces you can afford and pieces that fit you well. And Get basic pieces that can be used in many outfits for your wardrobe.

like a white blouse, black dress pants, that all-purpose black dress.

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You don’t want to buy expensive blouses and shoes for a summer intern or for a part-time job. If it is temporarily then don’t break your bank account.

Make sure your clothes fit and look tasteful on you. Don’t be afraid to try colors and patterns in traditional office dress.

3. Express your personality, stand out from your peers. Your talent, skills, and knowledge should accommodate you of course. So let them be noticed.

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4. Keep a professional look in your hair, and makeup.

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When They Won’t Let You Shop

When they won’t let you shop ,dig deep inside of your fashion soul and call upon your FairyGlamMother for a Black credit card,Amazing stylist ,and a Curse for those who burden you. And follow these 10 tips to get you threw it.

Watch the clip below

Blocking Oprah from shopping ,WHAT a DumbAss

Word of advice you never know who will come threw your door. WATCH below.

Always be kind to your customers

Rebecca’s 10 Tips On When they won’t let you shop .

When your shopping you are there for a purpose. Shopping can be fun and stressful, happy and sad all at the same time.”Yes”, Shopping can be. But some of us experience the devil when shopping.These are the horrible associates who don’t know ther place and manners in hospitality and customer service. It happens to us all ,and for some of us more frequently than the average customer. I have had situations of where I have had to let my inner bitch out. But we can’t always do that ,there is a time and a place for everything.

1. Even though the situation has caught you off guard,KEEP CALM! The situation is not permanent just temporary.

2. Ask what the situation is in a firm calm voice,be authoritative.

3. If the reasoning is not justified ask for the supervisor or manager.

4. If you are not getting the treatment you deserve ,pull out a recording device,and get the names of the individuals involved, the store number and address. Write the date and time down for your records.

5. File a complaint verbally and in written form.

6. If you are not satisfied with the results go up the ladder to human resources, regional mangers and so firth.

7. If still there is no shopping justice take your voice to social media. Blog about it everywhere from big brand sites to small independent sites.

8. Last but not least if necessary file a law suit,or take some form of leagle action against the company or business that has done you wrong.

9. Block all shopping from that place ,don’t even entertain them with your money,presence and so forth. And pass the boycott on to your friends and family and other social circles.

10. Go online to shop and shop with there competition.

Happy Shopping This Holiday Season

Our heart and prayers are with you

Our heart and prayers are with everyone who is being impacted by the hurricane.

1.Pray and stay calm

2.Have a safety back up plan in place

3. Get a list of all important local and government agencies numbers

Get a list of numbers with your family and friends for emergency communication.

4. Make sure you have up to 30days of batteries, water and non perishable food for you and your pets. Keep candles in a candle safety glass when burned same for oil lamps.

5. Get an emergency kit for injuries and keep it with you. Get vitamins,water,Pedialyte, peptobismol,feminine items,diapers.

Volunteer and donate to local shelters Please!

They will be overburdened by the hurricane afterwards.

I will do a doomsday prepping blog for everyone next month.

What is Boss Style?

What is BOSS STYLE?

Written by Rebecca Davis Blogger 8/9/18

BOSS STYLE can be defined as a powerful ,bold ,creative look.Its a look that comes from intelligence and confidence. BOSS STYLE is beautiful and it’s more than just clothing it’s a lifestyle.

As a boss you have responsibility to set the tone in your work environment, your clothes can be an example of the standards you want to have set in your office or company.

BOSS STYLE is strength , a BOSS should be at her best health that she possibly can be. Being the boss of good health is a strengthening bond that should be shared through out your work environment. All Bosses should have good mental and physical health.

BOSS STYLE can be beautiful ,feminine and sexy at the same time.

This style is for the hard working woman who has strived to accomplish her dreams and goals. Any woman can have BOSS STYLE. It is not limited to your income, race,religion or social status. BOSS STYLE represents every woman who has embraced her inner strength and beauty and all charisma that makes her unique. BOSS STYLE is not limited or exclusive to any female,it’s a lifestyle all women should embrace.

Women all over the world struggle everyday ,just because we are women. And everyday there is a BOSS that is brave and fearless that fights for our justice so that women can have equality and to make positive changes in the world so that more BOSSES can emerge.

Embrace the BOSS STYLE it is more than fashion it’s a lifestyle.


BOSS STYLE FASHION IDEAS


A Boss should Always have a great bag.