Bar Date Advice

Bar Date Advice

Meeting at the bar,can be casual . You can have the best time with someone in jeans and a top. Cute tops can be in any style,just don’t be that girl that has no style of her own and flaunts her body parts to get attention. Your beautiful personality should be what attracts people to you. Your clothes only complement your taste and attitude that is within you. If that person is a jerk and makes you feel uncomfortable walk away.

Remember to use bar safety tips when meeting someone one you met online. Like watch your drink, be careful with revealing to much information about yourself,and watch your purse. Thief’s go on dates too. And have a buddy check in place.

Happy New Year 2023

Happy New Year Everyone,This year is going to be great.

Let’s start 2023 off with a great vibe and mood,money may be tight but it is not everything. Money can open doors to opportunity,but don’t let it over shadow the golden free things in life which is more valuable. These things are good health, family, friends, being able to help others in need. Count your blessings big and small.

God bless you all Happy New Year 2023 is finally here

Bridal Knock Outs

Detail Beauty
Marriage is a blessing to the world,two souls who fall in love should be celebrated.
Don’t forget your ring bling on your big day
Do you want real flowers or fake ones???🤔
Table settings can be so complicated,but they can be the decor of the room. Did you know that the color and table setting can impact the mood of your room. Try using the services of professional table setters.
Cakes have become a big deal for many,me I just want to eat it and make sure it taste good,so I could care less what it looks like. But art and cake work is a big deal to some. So shop around for the best deals.
It’s his big day too,so help your husband,dad, brother or etc.. get wedding ready. Grooms grab your posse and start shopping at least 5months early and not 5 minutes away from your wedding day.
Men let your style reflect your personality.
Champagne 🍾 gold is such a beautiful idea for an engagement ring.
Details on your dress can be so amazing in the light and your photos
Design style can be beautiful ❤️

Wedding Style Pick For Today

Wedding Lookbook pick for today,how is your wedding planning coming along.

Don’t forget to arrange transportation to and from your location on your big day.
Be creative with decorating details, something small can be the center piece.
Grooms wearing all white is fine by me

When gown shopping find a form in the pattern that will highlight your shape and best features on your big day.

What are some big trends in weddings doughnuts,yes doughnuts. Many people are using them as a substitute cake.

Date Night Saturday In Autumn


Autumn Dates

What is so special about autumn dates,well maybe its the beautiful air and romantic nights. If you meet someone in autumn your relationship has a 85% success rate than other seasons.

What are some cool and romantic things to do in autumn.

1.Roof top picnics.

Roof top picnics are fun,creative and when you are in the city it is a chance to see the stars and the city. You are really on top of the world.

2. Walks in the park never get old.

Walking threw quiet and secluded places never get old with the beautiful leaf’s, squirls and mother natures ever changing creations.

3. Backyard cuddling

You can be as creative as you want,add a fire pit,romantic music and amazing snacks and let your fall romantic side out.

City VIEW

Heading to the city,give them a view they won’t forget in your style.

What are fun things to do in a city,even with a pandemic.

1. Outdoor and Roof top clubbing.

The outdoor club scene has popped off, and it is not going anywhere soon.

2. Outdoor concerts

Take the hint of outdoor

3. Food Truck chasing and hopping

Yes ,with the help of social media food truck chasing/hopping is a new favorite fun activity in the city life.

Wedding Hat And No Veil

New fashion trends happen all the time,and wedding fashion is not excused from it.

Some brides have decided not to wear the traditional veil in there weddings,this is not uncommon,but the new wedding trend is the Bridal Hat.

Bridal Hat Trends

Wearing A Hat On Your Wedding Day Tips

When you want to wear a hat on your wedding day hear are some tips to follow.

1. Invision your dress style and hat style for a wedding theme ,that theme needs to match up with your wedding venue and bridal colors.

The theme can play out with your hat, such as color,charms and flowers on your hat.

2. Look at the material on your dress,is it satin,lace,velvet etc… This will determine the style of hat you can wear.

3. Place the style hat on your head months before you go threw with this plan,hats are not for everyone’s face.

4. Take in to heart the season in which you want to marry in, for instance March and April in the south can be windy.

5. Will you be indoor or outdoors?

6. Check with the groom,he might not like it. It is his day too.

7. Its okay to have fun at your wedding if this is the route you want to go. Pirate hat anyone,I am just suggesting this because some people may want a cartoonish or cosplay event at there wedding.

8. Bling out your hat with pearls, rubies and fashionable bling that will accomadate your look.

9. Take your age into play when buying a hat.

10. Budget your hat. I have heard of wedding hats at the price of $5,000 for custom designs. But this is not always the case.

Lace It Up!

This is February the month for lust and lace. Add something extra to your creative closet this month,lets add lace and lust or even lace and leather.

Lace is a fabric that looks good on anyone ,no mater if you have a very curvy body or a mild shape body.

Lace can be worn in bags ,shoes,clothes ,outer clothes or underneath.

Take your imagination to new levels with lace. Its fun,sexy,cheap and mysterious on all levels.

Don’t be afraid to show him what your made of,you know sugar and spice and everything nice.

Going out ,well try a sexy backless dress with lace details,it will turn heads.

Lace It All Up!

January Evening Mood

It is 2021 so lets set the mood off to a great start.

Going out tonight ,try black and gold bold pieces.

Don’t let the negative hang up of life bring you or your fashion down. Be yourself, enjoy yourself ,love yourself. When you accomplish these 3 things then you can spread true love to others. Don’t dwell with your haters ,spin on top of them.

We have made it this far, we over came the year 2020 and now its 2021. A new fresh starting point.

I wish you all the best,I wish for you love ,happiness and great health.

Don’t forget your jacket tonight.

It is still chilly and we want our mood to be calm and warm with some sparkle and dazzle.

Make your own runway when you enter the room.

Happy New Year ,Lets Get 2021 Off and Poppin The Right Way !

Love Rebecca Davis-Owner

How Debbie’s Get Down For Winter

Debutants are beautiful and sophisticated,they know how to make an entrance with there style and grace.Most debutants are trained for the tradition,but winter debutants are the best.

WINTER DEBUTANTS TELL ALL

Winter debutants traditionally ware ball room style gowns and depending upon the theme, the color of the dress may vary from the traditional white gowns.

I have spotted a trend of gowns being specially designed by designers. Most winter gowns are not dark,but they have been revamped for modern women. Winter Debbie’s have worn red,wine,gold,silver,white ,green and royal blues. I have dressed one client in chocolate brown and gold for a Thanksgiving extravaganza despite the Covid 19 out break.

Most of my Debbie’s are aiming for the colors of Black,Royal blue and Gold this season.

My advice for that winter gown is to match your mask with it. Go all out on facial masks. Add rhine stones and prints ,just like gloves.

Don’t be afraid to be who you are in your style even in the pandemic.

Fun facts Debutants go by the nick name of debbie.

Have fun this winter season ,social distance,wash your hands and dress fabulous.

Happy 19th Of June

Happy 19th Of June

The 19th of June is a holiday that many people celebrate because it is the last day of slavery for blacks in America. Mostly recognized in the southern states.

Happy 19th Of June

Freedom is a right for all,its apart of our natural humanity on this earth. We must remind and educate many of this right. If we don’t we get the crap we see today.

Diversity is a beautiful thing and we all should be apart of it.

Holiday Drinks

Holiday Drinks

The Holidays are all about the parties and having fun with those you love. Most of us are adults here, so here are some fun drinks to try this season. If you get a little tipsy please call an Uber, Taxi or get a responsible driver to take you to your destination. Rember we all share the roads and we want to share the fun with you, and not past memories of you, so be safe and responsible.


Lemon-Pear Toddy

Lemon-Pear Toddy Recipe
This hot toddy comes together in a flash thanks to the microwave. A little fresh lemon juice adds a bright top note and balances the sweet pear flavor with a light tang.

Ingredients

  • 1 1/2 cups water
  • 1/4 cup sugar
  • 1/8 teaspoon kosher salt
  • 3/4 cup pear vodka
  • 1/4 cup brandy or cognac
  • 2 teaspoons fresh lemon juice
  • 1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • Thinly sliced pear (optional)

How to Make It

Step 1

Combine first 3 ingredients in a small microwave-safe bowl; microwave at HIGH for 2 minutes or until boiling. Stir to dissolve sugar and salt completely.

Step 2

Stir in vodka, brandy, juice, and vanilla. Garnish glasses with pear slices, if desired. Serve warm


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  1. 1 cup fresh squeezed orange juice.
  2. Cranberry simple syrup.
  3. 1 bottle champagne or prosecco, chilled.
  4. Orange slices and cranberries for garnish.
  5. 1 1/4 cups fresh or frozen cranberries.
  6. 1/2 cup granulated sugar.
  7. 1/2 cup water.

Candy Cane Martini

How to Make It

Step 1

Combine vanilla vodka, white creme de cacao, and peppermint schnapps in an ice-filled cocktail shaker. Shake vigorously, and strain into a cocktail glass. Garnish with peppermint candy.

Step 2

Reprinted with permission from 101 Martinis (Wiley & Sons, 2006) by Kim Haasarud; liquid-architecture.com.

When They Won’t Let You Shop

When they won’t let you shop ,dig deep inside of your fashion soul and call upon your FairyGlamMother for a Black credit card,Amazing stylist ,and a Curse for those who burden you. And follow these 10 tips to get you threw it.

Watch the clip below

Blocking Oprah from shopping ,WHAT a DumbAss

Word of advice you never know who will come threw your door. WATCH below.

Always be kind to your customers

Rebecca’s 10 Tips On When they won’t let you shop .

When your shopping you are there for a purpose. Shopping can be fun and stressful, happy and sad all at the same time.”Yes”, Shopping can be. But some of us experience the devil when shopping.These are the horrible associates who don’t know ther place and manners in hospitality and customer service. It happens to us all ,and for some of us more frequently than the average customer. I have had situations of where I have had to let my inner bitch out. But we can’t always do that ,there is a time and a place for everything.

1. Even though the situation has caught you off guard,KEEP CALM! The situation is not permanent just temporary.

2. Ask what the situation is in a firm calm voice,be authoritative.

3. If the reasoning is not justified ask for the supervisor or manager.

4. If you are not getting the treatment you deserve ,pull out a recording device,and get the names of the individuals involved, the store number and address. Write the date and time down for your records.

5. File a complaint verbally and in written form.

6. If you are not satisfied with the results go up the ladder to human resources, regional mangers and so firth.

7. If still there is no shopping justice take your voice to social media. Blog about it everywhere from big brand sites to small independent sites.

8. Last but not least if necessary file a law suit,or take some form of leagle action against the company or business that has done you wrong.

9. Block all shopping from that place ,don’t even entertain them with your money,presence and so forth. And pass the boycott on to your friends and family and other social circles.

10. Go online to shop and shop with there competition.

Happy Shopping This Holiday Season

Our heart and prayers are with you

Our heart and prayers are with everyone who is being impacted by the hurricane.

1.Pray and stay calm

2.Have a safety back up plan in place

3. Get a list of all important local and government agencies numbers

Get a list of numbers with your family and friends for emergency communication.

4. Make sure you have up to 30days of batteries, water and non perishable food for you and your pets. Keep candles in a candle safety glass when burned same for oil lamps.

5. Get an emergency kit for injuries and keep it with you. Get vitamins,water,Pedialyte, peptobismol,feminine items,diapers.

Volunteer and donate to local shelters Please!

They will be overburdened by the hurricane afterwards.

I will do a doomsday prepping blog for everyone next month.

What is Boss Style?

What is BOSS STYLE?

Written by Rebecca Davis Blogger 8/9/18

BOSS STYLE can be defined as a powerful ,bold ,creative look.Its a look that comes from intelligence and confidence. BOSS STYLE is beautiful and it’s more than just clothing it’s a lifestyle.

As a boss you have responsibility to set the tone in your work environment, your clothes can be an example of the standards you want to have set in your office or company.

BOSS STYLE is strength , a BOSS should be at her best health that she possibly can be. Being the boss of good health is a strengthening bond that should be shared through out your work environment. All Bosses should have good mental and physical health.

BOSS STYLE can be beautiful ,feminine and sexy at the same time.

This style is for the hard working woman who has strived to accomplish her dreams and goals. Any woman can have BOSS STYLE. It is not limited to your income, race,religion or social status. BOSS STYLE represents every woman who has embraced her inner strength and beauty and all charisma that makes her unique. BOSS STYLE is not limited or exclusive to any female,it’s a lifestyle all women should embrace.

Women all over the world struggle everyday ,just because we are women. And everyday there is a BOSS that is brave and fearless that fights for our justice so that women can have equality and to make positive changes in the world so that more BOSSES can emerge.

Embrace the BOSS STYLE it is more than fashion it’s a lifestyle.


BOSS STYLE FASHION IDEAS


A Boss should Always have a great bag.