No matter how good you are, someone is always going to be against you. But never let them be the limit of your success.”– Terry Mark
– Terry Mark
Written by Rebecca Davis
Women between the ages of 18-25 are 60% more likely to limit there success more than men. Women between the ages of 25-45 are 70% more likely to limit there success more than men .
WHY!? Researchers say its because of financial reasons , education and skills and life circumstances that cause women to limit there suceccss.
Women between the ages of 18-25 often go threw a research phase in there education ,meaning during this age period women often experiment in there careers and education.This is the stage of life when we question ourselves is this the right degree,or we began to change our mind in the career place and discover new hobbies,talents and skills and we began new adventures in the professional world and we can sometimes gain opportunities or loose them. This is normal because its our developmental phase and we all go threw it. The bad thing is if you bounce around to much lets say every 1yr or 6months you may limit yourself on the valuable skills you can learn if you stay at a minimum of 2yrs.
As a woman we all are guilty of putting others before us family and friends,always taking care of others needs. When we do this and not put our career first we often get passed over for management positions and promotions.
All age groups get affected by life circumstances. Forinstance getting married,having kids or having to deal with health issues. More than 78% of us make excuses and then life and age passes us over and opportunities that were once there are no longer available.
Many of us get hit with the financial issue and burdens of life. When you don’t have enough income to take training courses,finishing your degree or having the opportunity to go to college or secondary school. College is expensive and many women can’t afford it and we often get over looked for certain positions or opportunities because we lack the funds to skill our needs to advance in the work place.
My advice to everyone is take your opportunities at any age. Make a goal plan and a vision board and pray. Take a risk because you may be dead or too old ,you may regret it if you don’t. We all can’t go to ivey league college but there are cheap skill advancement programs all over and places that offer on the job training and education. There are alternative schools and free education communities. Get a mentor and learn. Educate yourself online,read books,go to the library and take advantage of government programs. And once again pray. Don’t limit your success for anyone GOD has a plan for all of us ask GOD for the instructions.
Life is a new beginning!
Winter White Fashion
Winter whites are clean,sharp and neutral.White is a color that is classy when it is paired with its siblings in Style. All white gives a bold statement and appearance when it is styled properly. Here are some wardrobe ideas for the color white this winter.
By Rebecca Davis
Winter White Fashion has a clean,sharp and neutral Fashion appearance. The look is strong and inviting, especially on cute fashionable dress jackets.
Cold Weather Cant Stop Fashion
Here are some cold weather fashion ideas and tips.
Do Long Coats to Protect You From The Harsh Weather
Grab That Great Sweater Or Cardigan .
Do bring out that favorite cardigan or sweater this season. Pick items of clothing that will keep you warm,make you happy and that complements your body.
How To Put An Office Assistant Outfit Together
Office assistants handle organizational and clerical support tasks. This may include organizing files, scheduling appointments, writing copy, proofreading, receiving guests and more, depending on the company you work for and the tasks they may give you. Because of the positions responsibility and many tasks you may perform threw out the day, you should be dressed to accommodate your role. If you are running errands you will need comfortable shoes, if you are meeting guest you should have on attire that fits your company standards.
#1 The first thing you should do is put your outfit together based on your company rules. Look around the office what is the dress code and tone.
You don’t want to wear jeans in a law firm unless its Friday and its okay with your boss. You don’t want to wear a bank attire at a hair salon.
#2 Pick out pieces you can afford and pieces that fit you well. And Get basic pieces that can be used in many outfits for your wardrobe.
like a white blouse, black dress pants, that all-purpose black dress.
You don’t want to buy expensive blouses and shoes for a summer intern or for a part-time job. If it is temporarily then don’t break your bank account.
Make sure your clothes fit and look tasteful on you. Don’t be afraid to try colors and patterns in traditional office dress.
3. Express your personality, stand out from your peers. Your talent, skills, and knowledge should accommodate you of course. So let them be noticed.
4. Keep a professional look in your hair, and makeup.
Our Closets are a reflection of our boxed up personalities ,fantasies and they hold our secrets. Take good care of your closet and it will take good care of you.
Our Closets Should Hold Essential Pieces Always.
Every man and woman should have something black.
Yes Black! It can be a skirt ,shirt, shoes ,a tie. Always keep basic trendy black items .
Your closet should have at least one trendy up to date item. This can include belts, purses and jackets.
Always keep an outfit that is weather neutral, something that can be worn in cold weather and warm weather.
Be sure to keep clothing pieces that reflect your lifestyle. For instance dont own a Grammy dress if you dont go to the Grammys. Dont keep a clown costume if you dont work the circus. Those items take up space,and they are a waste of money.
Always own trendy ,stylish, update pieces in black,or grey, white or brown. These are neutral base colors. Keep a great coat and a deep decently pair of dress shoes.
This is just some of my ideas that I pass on to clients.
When they won’t let you shop ,dig deep inside of your fashion soul and call upon your FairyGlamMother for a Black credit card,Amazing stylist ,and a Curse for those who burden you. And follow these 10 tips to get you threw it.
Watch the clip below
Blocking Oprah from shopping ,WHAT a DumbAss
Word of advice you never know who will come threw your door. WATCH below.
Always be kind to your customers
Rebecca’s 10 Tips On When they won’t let you shop .
When your shopping you are there for a purpose. Shopping can be fun and stressful, happy and sad all at the same time.”Yes”, Shopping can be. But some of us experience the devil when shopping.These are the horrible associates who don’t know ther place and manners in hospitality and customer service. It happens to us all ,and for some of us more frequently than the average customer. I have had situations of where I have had to let my inner bitch out. But we can’t always do that ,there is a time and a place for everything.
1. Even though the situation has caught you off guard,KEEP CALM! The situation is not permanent just temporary.
2. Ask what the situation is in a firm calm voice,be authoritative.
3. If the reasoning is not justified ask for the supervisor or manager.
4. If you are not getting the treatment you deserve ,pull out a recording device,and get the names of the individuals involved, the store number and address. Write the date and time down for your records.
5. File a complaint verbally and in written form.
6. If you are not satisfied with the results go up the ladder to human resources, regional mangers and so firth.
7. If still there is no shopping justice take your voice to social media. Blog about it everywhere from big brand sites to small independent sites.
8. Last but not least if necessary file a law suit,or take some form of leagle action against the company or business that has done you wrong.
9. Block all shopping from that place ,don’t even entertain them with your money,presence and so forth. And pass the boycott on to your friends and family and other social circles.
10. Go online to shop and shop with there competition.
Happy Shopping This Holiday Season
So cool! I learned my styling tips from Beauty Pageant’ s,Avon ,Retail Sales ,and Modeling.
Our heart and prayers are with everyone who is being impacted by the hurricane.
1.Pray and stay calm
2.Have a safety back up plan in place
3. Get a list of all important local and government agencies numbers
Get a list of numbers with your family and friends for emergency communication.
4. Make sure you have up to 30days of batteries, water and non perishable food for you and your pets. Keep candles in a candle safety glass when burned same for oil lamps.
5. Get an emergency kit for injuries and keep it with you. Get vitamins,water,Pedialyte, peptobismol,feminine items,diapers.
Volunteer and donate to local shelters Please!
They will be overburdened by the hurricane afterwards.
I will do a doomsday prepping blog for everyone next month.
What is BOSS STYLE?
Written by Rebecca Davis Blogger 8/9/18
BOSS STYLE can be defined as a powerful ,bold ,creative look.Its a look that comes from intelligence and confidence. BOSS STYLE is beautiful and it’s more than just clothing it’s a lifestyle.
As a boss you have responsibility to set the tone in your work environment, your clothes can be an example of the standards you want to have set in your office or company.
BOSS STYLE is strength , a BOSS should be at her best health that she possibly can be. Being the boss of good health is a strengthening bond that should be shared through out your work environment. All Bosses should have good mental and physical health.
BOSS STYLE can be beautiful ,feminine and sexy at the same time.
This style is for the hard working woman who has strived to accomplish her dreams and goals. Any woman can have BOSS STYLE. It is not limited to your income, race,religion or social status. BOSS STYLE represents every woman who has embraced her inner strength and beauty and all charisma that makes her unique. BOSS STYLE is not limited or exclusive to any female,it’s a lifestyle all women should embrace.
Women all over the world struggle everyday ,just because we are women. And everyday there is a BOSS that is brave and fearless that fights for our justice so that women can have equality and to make positive changes in the world so that more BOSSES can emerge.
Embrace the BOSS STYLE it is more than fashion it’s a lifestyle.
BOSS STYLE FASHION IDEAS
A Boss should Always have a great bag.